break up guide

i bought a couple books. felt too cheesy buying one solely on getting over break ups. i dont need to know women are from mars and the rest of that bullshit. i went to bodhi tree and that just angered me.

there it was in black and white in about 5 books, aquarius women and scorpio men are just not compatible. ha. thanks. one book even dared to show couples of the same equation, ashton and demi, julia and danny moder. except the men are the aquas.

here's a link I found which sums up the tragedy...

COUPLED-UP THEY ARE . . . out of breath trying to make this relationship work.These two signs are "square" each other which makes getting along a bit challenging.

that fucking sucks.

i dont even want to believe it but the stars, dem dey don't lie. we were doomed from the start. so much so different. i'm loud, he's quiet. i'm social, he's not. i feel too deep, he touches the surface. i hate his friends, he hates mine.

but the inner mechanisms of why people are attracted to each other can't be denied either. we did get along MOST of the time, we did enjoy each other's friends MOST of the time, I didn't have an opinion about his friends (who were mostly his family) because I didn't hang out with them and made a choice not to because he was so weird. and he was WEIRD about it because he'd never done it before.

if you started doing something, ANYTHING for the first time there is no telling what the outcome of your actions would be. but I was so stunned from how badly the family outings were that I simply shutdown and refused and did not push the issue.

its fine. i dont plan on kicking it with them losers anytime soon. thank god for that.